
What Causes Imposter Syndrome?
Imposter syndrome is caused by a mix of personal beliefs and external pressures. Root causes include perfectionism, unclear measures of success, biased environments, minority status, and discounting achievements. Together, these create a cycle of overwork, self-doubt, and fear of being “found out.”What Do We Mean by “Imposter Syndrome”?
Despite the name, it’s not an official diagnosis – you won’t find it in medical manuals. But the term is widely used because it captures a very real experience: feeling like a fraud despite evidence of competence. Here’s the catch: imposter syndrome is often misused. Some professionals treat it as everyday self-doubt; others use it without knowing how to address it. In popular culture it’s become a buzzword. Yet for many, the impact is serious: burnout, anxiety, stalled careers, and years of explaining away success.Where the Term Came From
The concept was coined in 1978 by psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes. Their study of high-achieving women showed a pattern:- Attributing success to luck or effort, not ability
- Fear of being “found out”
- Difficulty accepting praise.
What We Know Now

- Subjective roles: Work judged by opinion (therapy, teaching, leadership) fuels doubt.
- “Onlyness”: Being the only woman, person of colour, or first-generation professional adds pressure.
- Systemic bias: Microaggressions and stereotypes can reinforce fraud feelings. Critics argue that blaming “imposter syndrome” alone ignores toxic workplace cultures (Ref: Harvard Business Review).
- Perfectionism & conditional worth: Unless flawless, success feels undeserved.
- Upward comparison: Surrounded by talent, people dismiss their own achievements.
- Discounting praise: Compliments are brushed off; wins are credited to luck or timing.
The Imposter Cycle
Imposter syndrome plays out in a repeating loop:- Trigger: A challenge, new role, or evaluation.
- Pressure: “I must be flawless to belong.”
- Safety behaviours: Overwork, procrastination, avoidance, staying quiet.
- Relief: Success brings a temporary “phew.”
- Discounting: “I only managed because of luck/extra effort.”
- Belief reinforced: “If I were competent, I wouldn’t need these crutches.”
Could Trauma Play a Role?
Emerging clinical perspectives suggest it might. While research is limited, hypotheses include:- Critical or inconsistent parenting → core belief of never being good enough.
- Overpraise → unrealistic standards, achievements feel fake.
- Adverse childhood experiences → linked to poor emotion regulation and attachment anxiety, which can fuel impostor feelings.
Breaking the Cycle
Small steps can help loosen imposter syndrome’s grip:- Name it: Recognise the impostor voice when it appears.
- Experiment: Ease back on one safety habit; see what actually happens.
- Keep an evidence log: Record achievements and feedback.
- Talk about it: Most high achievers have felt the same way.
Why EMDR intensives can help busy UK professionals
Combining EMDR with an intensive format often brings deeper, faster relief. For high-achieving professionals balancing demanding careers and family life, intensives can make therapy more accessible.
Final Thoughts
EMDR isn’t mysterious; it’s structured, safe, and collaborative. If you’ve been carrying hidden hurts from the past, EMDR offers a way to move forward without endlessly talking about the past.
Considering an EMDR intensive? Explore my Complete Guide to EMDR Intensives or book a consultation to see whether this approach could support your recovery.
References
- Clance, P. R., & Imes, S. A. (1978). The Impostor Phenomenon in High Achieving Women. Psychotherapy: Theory, Research & Practice, 15(3).
- PsyPost (2024). Meta-analysis of 108 studies confirms women experience impostor syndrome more frequently.
- Harvard Business Review (2021). Stop Telling Women They Have Imposter Syndrome.
- McLean Hospital (2025). Feeling Like a Fraud? A Deep Dive Into Impostor Syndrome.
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