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What Causes Imposter Syndrome?

Imposter syndrome is caused by a mix of personal beliefs and external pressures. Root causes include perfectionism, unclear measures of success, biased environments, minority status, and discounting achievements. Together, these create a cycle of overwork, self-doubt, and fear of being “found out.”

What Do We Mean by “Imposter Syndrome”?

Despite the name, it’s not an official diagnosis – you won’t find it in medical manuals. But the term is widely used because it captures a very real experience: feeling like a fraud despite evidence of competence. Here’s the catch: imposter syndrome is often misused. Some professionals treat it as everyday self-doubt; others use it without knowing how to address it. In popular culture it’s become a buzzword. Yet for many, the impact is serious: burnout, anxiety, stalled careers, and years of explaining away success.

Where the Term Came From

The concept was coined in 1978 by psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes. Their study of high-achieving women showed a pattern:
  • Attributing success to luck or effort, not ability
  • Fear of being “found out”
  • Difficulty accepting praise.
Context was key. Women were entering male-dominated professions, often facing bias and scrutiny. With few role models, it’s no surprise many felt undeserving.

What We Know Now

woman struggling with imposter syndrome and reflecting in the mirror Modern research shows imposter feelings affect all genders. A 2024 meta-analysis of 40,000 people found women scored slightly higher, but men experience it too — often less openly. The bigger drivers are environmental:
  • Subjective roles: Work judged by opinion (therapy, teaching, leadership) fuels doubt.
  • “Onlyness”: Being the only woman, person of colour, or first-generation professional adds pressure.
  • Systemic bias: Microaggressions and stereotypes can reinforce fraud feelings. Critics argue that blaming “imposter syndrome” alone ignores toxic workplace cultures (Ref: Harvard Business Review).
  •  Perfectionism & conditional worth: Unless flawless, success feels undeserved.
  • Upward comparison: Surrounded by talent, people dismiss their own achievements.
  • Discounting praise: Compliments are brushed off; wins are credited to luck or timing.

The Imposter Cycle

Imposter syndrome plays out in a repeating loop:
  1. Trigger: A challenge, new role, or evaluation.
  2. Pressure: “I must be flawless to belong.”
  3. Safety behaviours: Overwork, procrastination, avoidance, staying quiet.
  4. Relief: Success brings a temporary “phew.”
  5. Discounting: “I only managed because of luck/extra effort.”
  6. Belief reinforced: “If I were competent, I wouldn’t need these crutches.”
Instead of building confidence, success increases fear that next time you’ll be exposed.

Could Trauma Play a Role?

Emerging clinical perspectives suggest it might. While research is limited, hypotheses include:
  • Critical or inconsistent parenting → core belief of never being good enough.
  • Overpraise → unrealistic standards, achievements feel fake.
  • Adverse childhood experiences → linked to poor emotion regulation and attachment anxiety, which can fuel imposter feelings.
These trauma-informed ideas aren’t conclusive, but they highlight why imposter feelings can run so deep.

Breaking the Cycle

Small steps can help loosen imposter syndrome’s grip:
  • Name it: Recognise the imposter voice when it appears.
  • Experiment: Ease back on one safety habit; see what actually happens.
  • Keep an evidence log: Record achievements and feedback.
  • Talk about it: Most high achievers have felt the same way.
If these patterns feel entrenched, therapy can help untangle early roots and build healthier ways of relating to success.

Why EMDR intensives can help busy UK professionals

Combining EMDR with an intensive format can help some people work through things in a more focused way. For high-achieving professionals balancing demanding careers and family life, intensives can make therapy more accessible.

When imposter feelings have older roots

For some people, imposter feelings sit on top of older experiences, like being criticised, overlooked or expected to cope alone. Understanding the pattern doesn’t always shift it.

An EMDR intensive is a focused way to work on what sits underneath. It brings trauma therapy together into a few focused days, online, instead of weekly sessions spread over months.

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Final Thoughts

EMDR isn’t mysterious; it’s structured, safe, and collaborative. If you’ve been carrying hidden hurts from the past, EMDR offers a way to move forward without endlessly talking about the past.

Considering an EMDR intensive? See what’s included in my online EMDR intensives, read my guide to online EMDR safety, or book a free 15-minute call to see whether this approach could support your recovery.

References

Does this resonate with you?

If these thoughts or feelings hit close to home, you’re not alone. Support with Healing or Imposter Syndrome is available with Dr Kaur, if you’d like to explore it.

An EMDR intensive brings focused trauma therapy together over a short period, online, instead of weekly sessions spread over months. A free call is a simple, pressure-free way to talk through whether it could help you.

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